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167 | declarative language with Linda Murphy: from introduction to in-depth application
ABOUT THIS EPISODE (+ scroll for resources) 👇
Dr. Tay explores the concept of declarative language and its benefits, especially for demand-avoidant children, with Linda Murphy—a speech therapist, RDI consultant, writer, and expert on the topic. They discuss the definition of declarative language and how it differs from demand-based phrases, emphasizing the importance of thoughtful communication that invites a collaboration. Linda shares insights from her book Declarative Language Handbook and provides practical strategies for parents to effectively use declarative language. They also cover topics such as building self-advocacy, fostering cognitive flexibility, and managing sibling conflicts through this approach. The importance of mindset shifts is emphasized as well as the continuous learning process in order to improve communication with autistic children.
00:00 Introduction to Declarative Language
00:30 Meet Linda Murphy: Expert in Declarative Language
02:12 Understanding Declarative Language
03:37 The Power of Declarative Language
05:29 Practical Examples and Strategies
08:47 Proactive Conversations and Mindset Shifts
16:05 Dynamic Support and Scaffolding
22:17 Direct vs. Indirect Declarative Language
25:40 Introduction to PDA and Indirect Language
26:18 Experimenting with Communication Strategies
26:53 Building Transparent Communication
28:23 Practical Examples and Techniques
29:48 Using Declarative Language in Different Scenarios
33:13 Modeling and Validating Emotions
45:00 Declarative Language with Non-Speaking Individuals
48:34 Final Thoughts and Resources
RESOURCES
⚡️ continue learning at declarativelanguage.com, including ordering Linda's books and checking out the resources referenced in the episode (types of DL and direct language for PDAers)
⚡️ want to learn more about Dr. Tay's Whole Family Approach and current services offered? visit drtaylorday.com
⚡️ continue learning from me and submit any questions [could be featured on a future episode] >>
Note: PDA is a theorized profile of autism and not a clinical diagnosis. however, it has been a helpful conceptualization for many parents to learn about how their child's brain is wired. our knowledge of PDA is currently unfolding and I do my best to share up-to-date, balanced information. to learn more about PDA, please listen to episode 110
