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180 | complex emotions in autism parenting: the path from grief to acceptance
ABOUT THIS EPISODE (+ scroll for resources) 👇
In this episode, Dr. Tay dives into the concept of grief that parents may experience upon learning about their child's autism diagnosis. Dr. Tay discusses the various stages of grief—denial, anger, bargaining, depression, and acceptance—and how these emotions impact the parenting journey. She emphasizes that grieving in this context is not about mourning the child but rather a shift in expectations and the challenges of raising an autistic child in a predominantly neurotypical world. The episode includes real-life examples from Dr. Tay’s community, highlighting the diverse experiences of parents. Additionally, Dr. Tay shared about her educational membership and clinical services aimed at providing continuous support for parents processing grief and a sense of community for parents navigating similar journeys.
00:00 Introduction and Episode Overview
01:58 Understanding Grief in the Context of Autism
04:49 Personal Experiences and Examples of Grief
08:43 Navigating Grief and Acceptance
13:51 Community Insights on Grief
25:56 Navigating Different Parenting Perspectives
26:19 Seeking Support and Resources
28:05 Understanding the Stages of Grief
28:48 Denial in the Grief Process
30:12 Anger and Its Manifestations
32:07 Bargaining and Desperate Measures
33:47 Depression and Its Impact
35:49 Acceptance and Psychological Flexibility
40:59 Complicated Grief and Its Variations
47:59 The Importance of Community and Support
52:07 Final Thoughts and Resources
RESOURCES
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