233 | when sensory is the missing piece behind meltdowns with laura petix

about this episode (+ scroll for resources) 👇

if your child is melting down, resisting, avoiding, running, crashing, or seeming impossible to support, sensory may be part of the story.

in this episode, dr. tay welcomes laura petix, occupational therapist and author of The Sensory Code, back to the podcast to talk about sensory regulation, sensory profiles, meltdowns, and how parents can start building sensory support into daily life in a way that actually fits their child.

you’ll hear about:

• why sensory regulation can be so impactful for autistic children
• what parents may miss when they only focus on stopping the behavior
• laura’s personal experience as an OT mom navigating intense meltdowns
• why parent regulation matters, even when that advice feels frustrating
• the 8 sensory systems and how to think about sensory “cups”
• how The Sensory Code helps parents understand sensory profiles and daily supports

timestamps

00:00 introduction to sensory regulation in autism

02:02 why sensory supports are crucial for children

04:56 laura's personal journey as an OT mom

09:56 understanding sensory profiles and thresholds

14:59 supporting regulation through simple strategies

20:01 the power of mindset shifts in parenting

24:57 using sensory profiles to tailor activities

29:56 overview of The Sensory Code book

34:59 case study: tactile defensiveness and behavior

40:00 building a sensory lifestyle for daily support

resources

⚡️ The Sensory Code by laura petix — learn more about the book, sensory profiles, and pre-order bonuses

⚡️ connect with laura on Instagram @theotbutterfly and find resources on her website

⚡️ EVOLVE the membership — ongoing education, monthly masterclasses, and weekly Q+A support for parents of autistic kids

⚡️ explore dr. tay’s clinical services, parent resources, and support at drtaylorday.com

⚡️ follow dr. tay on instagram @the.dr.tay for practical autism education, behind-the-scenes reflections, and parenting insights